… that Mother Teresa’s rules for sisters forbid friendships, emotional attachment, and any physical contact — even as slight as a tap on the shoulder?
—An Unquenchable Thirst: One Woman’s Extraordinary Journey of Faith, Hope, and Clarity by Mary Johnson
Excerpt from An Unquenchable Thirst:
I was sometimes confused by the myriad references to the Rule, the rule, the Rules, or the rules — singular or plural, capitalized or not, without any apparent change in meaning. Though Sister Carmeline referred to both the Constitutions and a seemingly endless number of unwritten customs and traditions as Rules, only the Constitutions carried what she called “the Church’s stamp of approval”; the Vatican’s Congregation for Religious had authorized the Constitutions as an infallible path to holiness. Failure to observe the Constitutions could be sinful, especially in matters connected with the vows. All religious (it felt strange to think of that word not as an adjective but as a noun referring to vowed sisters and brothers and some priests) took vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience. Missionaries of Charity were privileged to take an additional vow of wholehearted and free service to the poorest of the poor. We aspirants wouldn’t make these vows until we had completed three years of training, but we were to practice them already.
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